Well, lucky you! You’ve got yourself a internet dating help with the woman you’re interested in and with these first date tips you are sure to make your very first date a success.

I’m glad you’re serious about making a good impression because most guys think that by just Òshowing upÓ, they’ve already won their dates over. Unfortunately nothing could be farther from the truth. It’s the 21st Century fellas and it’s going to take a lot more to get the ladies impressed.

You’ll discover what most guys NEVER figure out… until it’s too late. Specifically, I’ll be sharing some fantastic first date tips.

Well, guess what? A lot of guys blame themselves when they don’t get the results they had hoped for on their first dates.

They think, “maybe I’m doing something wrong”…. or “women are not interested in me because… I’m not good looking”…. (or fill in any reason you can think of)

The good news is that you can fix this right now.

What I’m about to share with you are some tips you can implement that almost guarantee yourself a successful first date. But personally, I don’t think that’s enough. I want you to “cement” a place in your date’s heart, so that she wants to say yes when you ask her out for a second meeting. So, here goesÉ

Make your date feel special

What woman doesn’t want to feel and look good? Time to turn on your charming personality and blow her away with your charisma. Do NOT compliment her on her physical appearance. Try to keep eye contact and pass subtle compliments about her ÒotherÓ qualities, intelligence, style and insight while the both of you are in conversation.

Create excitement in your conversations to let her know you’re genuinely enjoying the time you’re spending with her. Most importantly, make her feel really comfortable with you. If she feels safe and comfortable with you, you’re almost guaranteed of a perfect first date.

Don’t let your first date be a romantic one

This is a big no-no for internet dating advice, yet most guys continue to make this mistake. There’s a time and a place for a romantic date, the first date is NOT one of them. Romantic dates should be best left when the both of you are on the verge of a blossoming relationship.

Keep the first date exciting, fun and a little crazy. I usually start off at a local bar or lounge if it’s during the eveÉ Or, you can just take her bowling. The idea of the first date is to establish a bond and create a lasting memory together. And what better way to achieve that than to indulge in some Òadrenaline pumpingÓ activities. Action-packed first dates have been proven to get couples hot under the collar, one way or the other.

Leave your date with something more to look forward to

It’s time to bid her goodbye after a great first date and you’re not sure if you should kiss her goodbye, hug her, or go for the dreaded “platonic handshake”. It’’s the most confusing decision for most guys to make — and who can blame them. Women aren’t really of much help at this point for they seem to almost enjoy leaving us clueless in the dark.

But, the key to making the right decision in this critical moment is based on how successful the date was and watching her body language.

If you’re going for the peck on the cheek, or the gentle kiss on the lips, watch for her reaction. If an encore is required, then follow through. But, try to leave something for her to look forward to for the second date.

Keep these first date tips in mind and you’ll be off to a roaring start.

Dave M. is the author of Insider Internet Dating: Discover how an average guy met 398 women with online personals — using an embarrassingly simple, dummy proof, internet dating ‘routine’ that works nearly every time. He also publishes a free internet dating tips newsletter, available at dating tips

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