The main thing I like about this site is that it offers users who have received points on the system (you get points by answering questions, or posting videos etc. –they have a nice FAQ) the ability to initiate and receive video chats from other users. This is a great new way to meet new people online, in a way which is not too overt like most dating sites. I use it as my internet support group.
Sometimes when I feel lonely at night and I get introspective, I like to go on a web search for interesting gals. Sure there is Stumbleupon and facebook for a web collage of materials about chicks who may or may not exist in real life, but I’m looking for something more of a community. Let’s face it: online dating is an embarrassing experience to say the least. I don’t like to have my picture browsed as that’s the thing which is most important about me.
I recently came across this great site, which gives me the solution I have been looking for. GirlsTeachGuys.com is this online community where you can find real Guys and girls sharing their real experiances on dating, relationships, sex, and love. While some of the subjects obviously overlap, and the site is rather new (and some of the functionality is a bit hard to reach) there are real women and guys talking about these subjects. It’s like nothing is taboo on this site… I can browse questions ranging from “what is the best present for a three year anniversary” to “how to get my wife to begin using sex toys” the site also features some pretty neat videos by the community as well as hundreds (if not thousands) of questions and answers, and articles.
1. I don’t trust you. What you’re actually saying is, “You need to step up your game, because I can see you’re up to something.” If he is up to something, he’ll just become even sneakier. Better to [span]think|consider it[/span] smart and act dumb-it’ll be easier to get the [span]evidence|proof[/span] you need to confirm your suspicions.
2. What are you thinking? What you’re really asking is: Is something wrong? Are you mad at me? Are you thinking about our relationship? Are you thinking about me? Are you thinking about someone else? If he wants you to know what he’s thinking, he’ll tell you on his own. If he doesn’t, he’ll lie when you ask.
Relationship advices
3. We need to talk. This is the equivalent of, “Go to the principal’s office”. [span]Guys|Men[/span] know it’s not going to be a fun [span]conversation[/span], so they’re already on the defense. If you need to [span]discuss|talk about[/span] something, just casually bring it up when the both of you are relaxed. Don’t try to talk to him when he’s tired, stressed or trying to watch tv!
4. Where is this going? Nowhere fast if that’s your attitude. [span]Guys|Men[/span] want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone that’s [span]constantly|continuously[/span] worrying about the future. His actions or non-actions will [span]tell|guide[/span] you where it’s going. If it’s going somewhere, you’ll know it. If it’s not, you’ll know it too.
Love advices
5.Are you [span]seeing|dating[/span] anyone else? Mystery is to men what romance is to women. You’ve just [span]indirectly|[/span] told him that you want to be exclusive, you’ve handed over control of the relationship and you’ve killed the mystery. Who knew 5 words could be so [span]powerful|effective[/span]?
6.Did you sleep with her? As long as he’s not [span]sleeping|having sex[/span] with her now, who cares? The past is gone. Don’t torture yourself (and him) with these thoughts. In this case, ignorance really is bliss.
7.I love you (first) You’re saying it in the hopes that he’ll say it back, but what if he doesn’t? You’ll be [span]devastated|destroyed[/span] and probably feel [span]foolish|bad[/span]. Saying “I love you” is not going to speed things up if he’s not ready to say it back. So just cool it, and let him be the first to say it when he’s ready.
8.Where were you? If he wanted you to know where he was, he’d tell you. What you’re really [span]asking|wondering[/span] is, “Where you with another [span]female|girl[/span] that you like [span]better|more[/span] than me?” Your insecurity is showing, [span]sweetie|honey[/span]. If anything, he should be wondering where you were.
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9.Why didn’t you call? There’s only one [span]answer|respond[/span] to this question: Because he didn’t [span]want|desire[/span] to!!! What you’re really [span]asking|wondering[/span] is, “Why didn’t you want to call me?” Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldn’t be sitting around wondering why. You should be out [span]]dating|meeting[/span] lots of different guys and not worrying about ONE guy. Don’t be so [span]quick|rapid[/span] to put all your eggs into one basket, because if they break, it’s a big mess!
10.When will I see you again? You’ll see him when you see him. If he wants to [span]see|meet[/span] you again, he’ll call. If not, next. You don’t have time for anyone that doesn’t have time for you.